I just emptied my personal e-mail box completely for the first time since 2017. Yes, it was stuffed with nine years of e-mails -- well, not every e-mail I received, of course. At first there were a few from friends that I saved to reread when I was feeling blue. They weren't much, but served as proof that I actually had friends. I also saved the not so nice ones, the kind with digs, veiled insults, and unkind remarks that hurt me. It took me a long time back then to end relationships with bullies and toxic people, and I would pour over those nasty e-mails, usually thinking I was reading into it too much because hey, they were my friends, right? At least, that's what they kept telling me. After Mom died, the blinders finally fell off, and I saw people for who they were, not for who I hoped they were. That's when I began cutting ties with the not so nice folks. I was aware that I should have gone through all my saved e-mails and just let them be marked read. ...